Coming of Age: Overcoming Trauma to Achieve Self-Determination
Welcome to my official website. My name is Elaine Alec (teɬkənitkʷ), an Indigenous author from the syilx and secwepemc nations, I am an entrepreneur and advocate for healing, self-determination and reconnection.
My upcoming book, Coming of Age: Overcoming Trauma to Achieve Self-Determination, is a deeply personal memoir and guide that invites readers on a journey of resilience, healing, and empowerment. Drawing on my own experiences and Indigenous teachings, this book offers practical tools and reflections to help you embrace your identity, reconnect with your roots, and find the strength to live with integrity and purpose.
Presales open in early 2025, and the official launch is planned for the end of April.
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I am a proud member of the syilx (Okanagan) and secwepemc (Shuswap) nations, born in syilx territory and gifted the name teɬkənitkʷ (“Standing by Water”) by my tema (grandmother). My mission is rooted in advancing reconciliation, fostering belonging, and cultivating spaces of emotional safety for all humans.
As the founder of Naqsmist Storytellers Inc. and creator of the Cultivating Safe Spaces framework, I have dedicated my life to dismantling systems of oppression and inspiring individuals to think different, dream big, and lead bold..
Other Works
📚 Calling My Spirit Back
My first book is an acclaimed exploration of resilience, healing, and reclaiming one’s spirit and identity. It has touched thousands of readers worldwide and continues to inspire healing-centered leadership. You can order online through Amazon or ask your local and independent bookstore to order it in for you.
Upcoming events
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Cultivating Safe Spaces 1-Day PopUp Conference
March 8, 2025
Penticton, BC
This 1-day experience is designed for folks who may not be able to attend our 2-day 3rd Annual CSS Conference in Vancouver this April. It’s an accessible and engaging way to explore what CSS is all about, connect with like-minded changemakers, and gain tools for fostering belonging and safety in the spaces you lead.
Early bird tickets are $500
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3rd Annual Cultivating Safe Spaces 2-day Conference
April 3-4, 2025
Vancouver, BC
Coast Coal Harbour Hotel
This conference will be a unique opportunity to:
Dive deep into the CSS Framework, including the Four Necessary Conditions, Four Protocols, and Four Perspectives.
Participate in various workshops and breakout groups.
Network with like-minded individuals
Work With Me
Whether through workshops, keynotes, or my Cultivating Safe Spaces framework, I help individuals and organizations foster environments of inclusivity, connection, and safety. If you’re ready to inspire change in your community, let’s collaborate.
Keynotes
Inspire your audience with dynamic, story-driven presentations that weave Indigenous teachings and actionable strategies. Perfect for conferences, leadership retreats, or team-building events.
Custom Consulting & Advisory
Cultivating Safe Spaces Strategy Sessions
Community Engagement
Leadership Development
Decolonizing Policies
Action and Strategy Implementation
Event Planning and Facilitation
Online Courses
Mini CSS Course ($40): A quick introduction to CSS principles.
Intro to CSS Course ($200): Foundational insights into cultivating safe spaces.
Enhanced CSS Add-On ($200): Advanced application tools Launching early 2025
CSS for Executive Leadership ($1,200): Comprehensive training for leaders driving transformation. Launching Jan 2025